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Friday, October 21, 2011

a conversation with a typical kid

Yesterday morning, SJ approached a six grader.  He has known this boy for many years, but he doesn't generally talk to him.  He walked up to him and started this conversation.

SJ:  Hey, Brian.  How is Mr. Black? (Brian's teacher)
Brian:  He is good.  How is Mr. Gold? (SJ's teacher)
SJ:  He is good.  This is what we are going to do today, Brian.  I have Book Fair, Language Arts, Lunch, Math, Recess and Special.  What is going on in Mr. Black's class today?
Brian:  I don't know, SJ. 
SJ:  Are you playing basketball again Brian?
Brian:  Yes, I am.  Are you playing basketball SJ?
SJ:  No.  (Then, he looked at me.) Sorry, sorry, sorry.  I meant to say yes.  I am playing basketball.  (This is still up for discussion, but he thinks he is playing.)
Brian:  Do you like basketball?
SJ:  Yes, Brian.  I do.  I do like basketball.

I asked Brian to tell SJ how he feels when he does well at basketball and how he feels when his team loses.  (Brian did and their conversation continued for another minute or so.)  This is a big problem for SJ.  The last time he played basketball he would get infuriated when the other team scored.  He would cry and yell.  That is why we are still discussing whether he will play basketball or not. Whether SJ plays basketball or not, I am glad that he is still trying to fit into the typical world.  It is nice to know there are typical kids out there who are patient and accepting of kids with PDD.  Thanks Brian!  You made my day!

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